Friday, August 28, 2009

The Case of Women

See this post is just to declare openly the sentiments of males when they face off against the fairer sex. It's understandable from our human nature that opposite sexes behave and think differently. Hence the saying 'men are from Mars and women are from Venus'. Two people coming together takes some degree of chemistry, coincidence, attraction and commitment. And yet staying together becomes tricky, Venus may expect Mars to have some telepathic connection with her and be able to read her mind. Mars on the same note expects Venus to understand that the fact that he commits to her shows he's trying to adopt that frequency. But Venus gets angry when Mars does not do anything to maintain the relationship. While it's known that men tend to stagnate and let the passion plateau because they're in a comfort zone with the girl they love and they think that's enough. However, women would always hope secretly that their men would do something for them.

If you're in a similar situation, ask yourself some questions as well, dear Venus.

1. If he's able to be telepathic and shower you with little gifts and make you really satisfied, won't it worry you that he's able to charm lots of OTHER women that way since he has the key?

2. If he were anymore sensitive, won't it worry you that he's not very man enough, like he bitches more than you, is conscious about his looks more than you, and going emotional watching movies and end up crying on your shoulder instead?

3. If he were any better, aren't you worried that other women may try to snatch him away and cause you even more worry if he doesn't come home right after work and goes on overseas business trips?

Some food for thought. I know women are never satisfied, but here's some brakes on your neverending move towards perfecting your man. Cheers!